Why the Second Twin is the Eldest( fun twin Fact)

 

 Whether its 90's or 2020's, people of all ages would definitely feel fascinated to hear about Twins.

Different countries and people of different belief's have varied ideas and myths about twins.

Even the thought about kids and smart upbringing  differs according to an individuals lifestyle and its all upto the views, parents have on them.

Children are the most exquisite and adorable beings no man could refuse to take care of.

Just getting a thought about them might bring on a bright smile at everyones face, cause that's how naughty and enchanting memories of them, fill up our mind.

But for some, they might find children bothering and loud. Either their situation or mind would have made them think as if, but not the kids.

If we look at the lifestyle of two different houses, like House A with parents and teens; while house B with parents, teens and a baby.

Can you guess which house spends the most satisfying day?

Just with no further thinking we can point our fingers towards House B.

Father who left work early at morning and the siblings who left school after their dad, would return home early with the same thought. No matter how horrible their day might be! How dreary they would have felt!

The moment they think about home, meeting the baby would definitely lift their energies up.

That's how magical babies and kids spread their aura to their loved ones, nevertheless breaking off elder's back bone too😅

While having just one baby/kid at home has such advantages and struggles, what if its not one but two!

Like I've said before, " Double the sufferings, double the happiness".

Twins are ofcourse god owned gift, who sometimes make housemate get amazed by their miraculous behaviours. 

Like when one gets sick, the other catches it within a day. Sometimes Twins think the same too.

While nature holds lot of mysteries about Twins, lets check out the interesting facts we got to know about Twins for the time being.

1. Like-mindedness

I'm not pointing out any scientific or psycological facts written on books. As a twin I agree with this fact. Myself and my twin used to think the same sometimes, even there are time when we scored similar mark in exams.

When we're given tasks to figure out an answer or simply just coming up with a name, we think the same often. Inspite of having different tastes and preferences, we can't deny the fact that our minds are in sync most often.

2. More adjustable in nature

From the day they enter the womb till the minute they were brought out to the world, they live a life of inseparables, with a companion always beside.

 Unlike single childs, they begin to learn the manner of sharing in the womb itself.

 While growing up, they see how their parents give everything equal to them.

When the mother is not near, they share without anyone to guide them.

   From toys, snack, dress to conversation, they would share everything.

If one is not near, the other would wait. He/ she tend to eat, only after the other arrives.

There are still instances, where there are twins who would watch even videos together. 

They find it less satisfying and no fun, while doing things leaving the other.

 Cause of this adjusting nature, their life seems easy compared to single childs.

3. Would feel down when the other twin tears up

 It's just normal that we all tend to worry when someone close to our heart isn't happy.

But in case of twins, it's just not their affection towards each other make them feel as such, but ofcourse due to nature.

They could never control their emotions if one of the clones express any type of sentiment whether its joy or sorrow.

You can't possibly mock one and walk past the other. Not only they had shared the same womb but also the soul, which no one can  easily break through.

4. Debates about who's the eldest

There are list of frequently asked questions Twins had to keep on mind whenever they meet guests.

They would always asks whose the eldest even after we notify them as Twins.

Why do they ask who's the eldest while Twins are born on the same day?

I'm not talking about other types of Twins but Identical ones who are born at the same day.

Even though the date is one, timing differs, since a mother can't possibly deliver two child at a same time.

So, the one who was delivered first might say he/ she the eldest.

To the world, they might be the eldest. As per nigerian tradition, the child who was delivered second was the eldest.

This is crazy right?

The reason behind why second born twin is called the eldest is because, he/she was at the front from the very begining.

During the delivery pain, the child at the front might get pulled behind by the second, eventually getting delivered first.

There are lot of debates going on each and everyday about whose the eldest at twins.

I think its okay if childrens find it curious to know about it. 

But if it does bring rebel I think its completely unnecessary to bring that topic infront of your kids, since born at the same day can't make one the eldest ot youngest.

When your child asks you the same one day, tell them

Being born as a twin is the greatest gift you've given me. As per your birth, you both mark your identity as the same having no up's and down's, which mean there's no place to take the role of the eldest and the youngest.

This is what I figured out all these days having an advantage as a twin.

There might be lot of facts I might have left unsaid.

To me, rather than digging out all scientific facts, just being sure about the simple emotions twins feelings scored more.

With this, I hope any twins could relate to my above facts, if they've read it. 

If you do have known about other fun facts, please to comment it, so that I'll get to know.